Tea In Time

 ForGetMeNot Memories & Events 

                      A California 501(c)3

Upcoming Events: To ensure the safety of our ladies, specific location information is provided via email/text to attendees during sign-up.

Dearest Mother and Father,

I am alive and well. One can only surmise the news of 

Ms. Frathingham’s school demise by the raging war has reached home. I have no words to express how we felt all clung to on another watching our beloved school burn to the ground. 

In a flood of tears and hopelessness tis by the grace of God that the 1st North Carolina Cavalry road in to our rescue. We are now under their protection and will be for some time as each girl makes their way back home.

We have gone from learning social graces to tending wounds and writing letters for the soldier who are unlearned in the are of reading and writing.

I often wondered why such determined fighting men would stop to help us at their own peril, then I came across a soldiers letter home missing the safe comfort of his wife, sister and mother:

"Tis hard to see the mighty prancing war horse, trampling the dying and dead beneath their merciless feet. No dear wife, near to speak a word of comfort. No living sister or Mother to administer relief in that hour the most sad in the history of humanity. O the humanity. O the horrors of war. Truly it may be considered the most cruel and awful scourge which can befall a nation. Heaven grant there may be an end soon."  Samuel D. Lougheed letter to his wife Jane "Jennie" Lougheed, October 7, 1862

Civil War Re-Enactment 

at Historic Jensen-Alvarado Ranch & Museum

4307 Briggs Street, Jurupa Valley, CA 92509

Over 100 actors in costume and full gear will be on-hand to re-enact battles of the American Civil War. Come enjoy a large collection of memorabilia and educational displays, hear President Lincoln's famous Gettysburg address, see the big cannons firing, and talk to the soldiers to learn more about the Civil War.

$5 per person (cash only at the gate). Food and craft vendors also on site. Event proceeds support on-going children's education field trips and tours of the Historic Jensen-Alvarado Farm & Museum.

11th Annual Civil War Days 

at Strathearn Park

Strathearn Historical Park will transform itself into a 
small town in rural America in the 1860s 

Saturday, April 1, 2023 from 10am – 4pm 
Sunday, April 2, 2023 from 10am to 3pm
Price: Contact Museum

Step back to another place and time, when President Lincoln could take a break from his Washington duties to give a speech on the steps of our Strathearn House. Here, costumed civilians, as well as soldiers from the north and south stand ready in their camps, eager to tell their stories to the passing visitors. Sergeants drill groups of local boys and girls curious to experience military life. Skirmishes, as well as artillery, infantry and cavalry demonstrations will take place throughout the weekend.
Highlights include: 

• President Lincoln delivers his Gettysburg Address
• General Ulysses S. Grant & General Robert E. Lee reenact the Surrender at Appomattox
• Kids wanted as recruits – come early & enlist, plus interview a soldier
• Food for sale from local food vendors
• Experience Authentic Artillery & Infantry Demonstrations
• Enjoy a 1860s Women’s Clothing Demonstration (Saturday Only)
• Tour historic Simi houses & buildings beginning at 12pm each day
• Historical Demonstrations: Civilian Encampment, School Room, Newspapers, Apothecary & more
• Meet Harriet Tubman and listen as she shares her experiences on the Underground Railroad
• Music daily performed by Orange Town Revival, Mountain Fife and Drums and Camp Carleton Band
• Shop Civil War Era Items at Simi Store & Kansas Mercantile
at Fort Tejon State Historic Park

June 3 and 4, 2023
"Period" Base Ball game, 1 battle on Saturday and 2 battles on Sunday

Take the opportunity to tour the Union and Confederate camps, Artillery demonstrations and meet presidents Jefferson Davis and Abraham Lincoln and their generals Grant and Lee.
Visit the Civilian encampments, Field Doctor, Telegraph operator and Postmaster. 
See what the merchants have for sale on Sutler Row.
Ages 15 and older: $20
Children 6-14: $10
Children 5 and under: FREE
Active Military with ID: FREE

29th annual Civil War  Days 

Living History Event in 

Huntington Beach Central Park

September 2nd & 3rd 2023

HB Central Park (Behind the Library)

On Gothard between 

Slater and Talbert

Camps open to the Public on 

Saturday and Sunday

Battle Times: 

                  Sat: 1:30 and 4 PM                   Always Free to the Public!

Summer Program

The program objectives are achieved through a summer curriculum consisting of educational workshops, activities, community service outings and rehearsals. 

The culminating event of the program is the Victorian Debutante Cotillion Ball, to be held at the end of the summer in which the debutantes are formally presented in Victorian Society and their local communities.

This event also includes an award ceremony in which individuals will be presented with scholarships to the following years program.

Our Victorian Etiquette Program supports Young Women in today's society by promoting:

The enhancement of personal, civic and leadership development through structured educational workshops.

Develop servant leadership through volunteerism and community service.

Develop high ethical standards, character development, good citizenship and social graces during the formative years.

Develop camaraderie and positive relationships with other young women.

Develop artistic expression and health through dance and movement


Donations help offset the cost of tuition, educational tools and materials for each attendee. This program is possible by donations from individuals like yourself. 

Each Donation over  $50.00 will come with a 15% annual discount on all Tea In Time Afternoon Tea Fundraisers. *

* 15% discount applies to the initial purchase per event (regardless if you are buying (1) seat or (20) seats at a time). All subsequent purchases for the same event will be at the regular price.

Donations receipts automatically provided for donations over $100.00.